How would it feel to be UNSHAKEABLE in your life?CALM. CLEAR. CONFIDENT.
- You are working way too hard
- You are not making the money you want
- You worry that you’ll be “found out” as not being “that good”
- You aren’t at the weight or don’t have the energy you want
- You don’t speak up for yourself or put yourself “out there”
- Absolutely own your expertise and the value you provide
- Ask for the money and fees you want with confidence
- Give up worrying about what others think or expect of you
- Create all the success you can without apology
- Have the health, relationships and life you want
The good news is You Can!
It’s not more self-help books, strategies, will-power or doggedness. It’s an unshakeable belief and trust in yourself that sustains your resolve, even when faced with set-backs, criticism or even rejection.
Confidence is the foundation for going for the job you want, having the clients you want, asking for the money you want, taking the time off you want, having the relationships you want and having the health and body you want.
Discover the traits of this paradoxical condition and how to determine to what extent it might be hindering your career or business.
Seven Keys to Unshakeable Confidence
The Key to Confidence
I have been where you are.
Even though I had numerous qualifications and even awards for my work, I never felt like I measured up. I was sure I would be discovered as not being the high-achiever others seemed to think I was. I lived in constant anxiety wondering “what’s wrong with me” and will I ever “get there”?
No amount of courses, programs or business coaching that I had spent tens of thousands of dollars on provided me with the clarity and confidence I so desperately wanted.
What I finally discovered is that what was in the way was not what I did or did not know, but how I felt. It was my emotions and irrational fears that were fuelling my self-doubt. Releasing the guilt, shame, anger and other buried emotions that were keeping me stuck and struggling allowed me to see myself in a new light – as the accomplished, successful and capable professional I am.
Through my own experiences, I created an empowering process to help you transform your relationship with yourself and your life, in essence, to help you to become Unshakeable so that you have the conviction and courage to live your life on your terms and create all the success you want.
Even more intrigued?
I offer a variety of courses and programs incorporating Emotional Freedom Technique among other energy psychology tools with my award-winning coaching as a way to dramatically speed up the process of getting you to a better place – be it with your career, finances, health or weight.
Join us for our upcoming Lunch and Learn Series for 2019, where you will meet and network with other accomplished and inspiring professional and entrepreneurial women and discover together how to profit from your genius.
If you resonate with feeling like an impostor and want to know right away to what degree this debilitating mindset is sabotaging your success, contact me for a Personal Breakthrough Session.
This includes a comprehensive assessment and an in-depth review of your results. You will come away with newfound insight in to what has been holding you back and options for how to move forward.
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Seven Things that Undermine Your Natural Confidence:
Dear (first name),
In preparation for the upcoming Lunch and Learn on Friday, April 12th, I identified seven things that can undermine natural confidence. You may have come to believe that you need to do something in order to gain or grow your confidence, however, the truth is, you are already confident. Nevertheless, there are common thoughts that destabilise that confidence.
When you recognize the underlying beliefs (which are generally not true), those ideas no longer sabotage your natural capacity to feel self-assured and trust in yourself. You are able to see and accept things the way they are, not how you want or need them to be. You can see the truth of who you are – an intelligent, resourceful person doing your best with the information you have in each moment. You begin to understand that on a spiritual level, there is nothing wrong, everything is unfolding as is for reasons you many not yet comprehend.
Here is Thing One.
Thinking You Need to Be Special
Growing up, you may have been told that you were special, and you absolutely were in the eyes of loving parents. You may have been praised for being cute, precocious and clever. These messages may have had you come to believe that being special meant you were safe, loved and accepted by those you depended on for care.
Perhaps you came to understand that if you excelled in anything – school, sports, art, music – your achievements garnered praise and recognition from others. You learned to please, perform and perfect as a way to guarantee continued appreciation for who you were.
However, current research suggests that the number one cause of anxiety and depression among young people is the belief that they need not only to be special but to be exceptional. Pressure is exerted to get the best marks, get into the best schools, play on the best teams, have the best clothes, friends, etc. These pressures exert a lot of stress and expectations.
What if it was okay to be ordinary? This does not mean that you are not unique, with your own distinctive combination of talent, strengths, intelligences, it means it is okay to be all you are and no more. What would that do for your self-esteem?
Join us for the upcoming Lunch and Learn to further explore your Natural Confidence.
To Your Freedom and Success,
Current research suggests that the number one cause of anxiety and depression among young people is the belief that they need not only to be special but to be exceptional.